GIRLS and GUYS please answer?
Jake Asked: GIRLS and GUYS please answer?
I met this girl in my 5th period class and she's amazing in every way, we always laugh and smile at each other and we started talking since, about December. I really like this girl, she is everything I want in a girls personality and she is the most beautiful girl I've ever seen. Only thing, she has a boyfriend, and one of her friends that's known her for a long time told me that he was yelling at her one day and she sometimes came to class crying and I asked her what's wrong, is she okay, stuff how he shouldn't be making her cry ever. He dropped out of school about 2 weeks ago and I've really fallen for this girl, we walk to 6th period together, joke along the way, she turns around and waits for me if there are people standing still and I have to go around, she looks at me a lot too. I gave her rides to her house about 8 times now and she told me on Facebook "I like riding with you anyways. It's entertaining". I hate how her boyfriend treats her but I don't want to tell her my feelings and lose her.
We're both 16 and in High school, we have a lot in common and dislike a lot of the same crap, she's so amazing, funny, smart, beautiful, and she plays X-box with me. Here are some Facebook quotes from when we talked all day until she went to sleep
"I feel better now that I've gotten it off my chest to someone"
"You are not just a person I'd only come to if I had nobody else, that's what you make it sound like lol. I like talking to you about stuff, you're understanding about it, it makes me feel more comfortable."
"I don't know what happened with you on friday, but I hope you're okay…" I told her I had to go and I went to lay down and started crying for the first time in about 3 years since my dog died, because I can't be with her…
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So, my question. Should I tell her my feelings? I want to but I don't know if she feels the same. Girls, do you act like this with a guy you like?
Answers:
Damn, this happened to me twice in one day.
I'd give it a little while. If you are really good friends, as appears to be so, the next time something bad with her boyfriend happens, ask why she's still with him. Well, maybe not something that direct but along the lines of "Why did you let him do that and get away with it?" You can give some little flirty gestures, or something like that. I'd hang out with her a bunch after school; get to know her better, and for more than two months. At some point, still with her boyfriend or not, I'd tell her how you feel, if you're pretty sure that she feels the same. Otherwise, it's "a valuable friendship opportunity"… not to sound corny, lol.
I'm a 15 year old girl and lol this is exactly what I do with a dude I like as a little more than a friend. Tell her you like her as a little more than a friend. If she stutters at first that is normal it's what she says later on is what matters.
Sounds to me like you are in the friend zone. You are her shoulder she cries on, her b****. Stop talking to her for a month then she'll miss you so much then you "catch up" by asking her out on a date.
Yes this ie exactly how I act around guys that I like. I have no idea why she has a boyfriend other than you! You can either tell her how you feel and risk putting her in the situation where she has to choose, which could end up with her not liking you at all, or it could end up as a "fairytale". If you go with the first and it doesn't work out, I'd go to 9gag.com, you wont ever think about her once your soul is gone.
This sounds almost just how me and my current boyfriend got together.. my ex was a freakin a**hole and one of my close guy friends kept getting mad about it and we started texting and eventually he made me realize that I had a shot at something so much better. He didn't tell me that he wanted to be my boyfriend but he did tell me that I was better than the way my bf was treating me and that I needed to get away from him. Which I did and then he just kept being my friend and eventually he told me how much he cared for me and we started getting a little more serious with each other. Can't guarantee that this will happen to you but I would say that if you're any kind of friend, that you should encourage her to at least get out of the relationship and then just be the best friend you can, flirt a little and see how she takes it, but don't move too fast because getting out of a relationship like the one she's in can be really hard *I definitely know…… good luck to ya!
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